I’m no different to you
If you had met me a decade ago, you would’ve thought, “Wow! She’s SO lucky!” I was a leader in retail, travelling the world and living in places like London and Dubai. I got married to the man I loved and had a crazy, beautiful wedding in Mexico.
Yet, most of the time, I felt like something was off - both at work and in my marriage. My gut was telling me I was on the wrong path but my oh-so-logical mind wanted proof.
Have you ever been in a situation like this?
You know that you’re not in the right place but you certainly don’t have any “reasonable” explanation why you feel this way. So, you stay exactly where you are - feeling stuck, unhappy, unfulfilled and anxious all the time.
And, you know what usually happens next?
Things fall apart by themselves! Sometimes it takes years. But sometimes it happens in a flash. This was my experience. My husband lied to me and our happily ever after was over just six weeks after we said, “Till death do us part”.
After a few unfortunate attempts to revive my marriage, I finally woke up to perfect clarity! I realised that someone that could hurt me over and over again was not worth my energy, my time, and most importantly ME.
So, I ended it. (And, boy, was it a soap opera ending!)
And then, all of a sudden...
My inner badass was back!
I went skydiving. Twice.
I drove the length of France on my own, in a minivan with Sat Nav only in French. (I know no French, but can navigate a roundabout in France like it's nobody's business!)
I moved to Malaysia and had a new, exciting job.
I travelled to Cambodia and Vietnam, all around Malaysia, Thailand and Singapore.
I got a new tattoo.
I reconnected with good friends.
I reconnected with me!
Of course, it wasn’t all smooth sailing.
That job in Malaysia turned out to be less fab than I’d initially imagined. Soon, the planets aligned, and the job finished when I least expected it. This turned out to be a good thing, and I went through all the stages of questioning myself:
Why couldn't I handle the stress better?
What do I want out of life?
What are my options?
What the hell am I going to do now?
While I was searching for answers, I went on a retreat in Bali, and worked with several coaches.
It turned out I already had the answers. I just needed help seeing them.
I realised that my passion has always been connecting with people and helping them to see and be their best selves. That's what I got paid for. As a manager, my role was to support my team, encourage them to make decisions and achieve results that exceeded their own expectations.
And that’s what a life coach does.
You deserve to live your best life.
I believe that you, like everyone else, deserve to be happy and fulfilled, to find joy and excitement in your work, and in your life. And I know that you CAN do it.
So, right now, if, you feel lost, don’t know what you want or can’t figure out why you’re unhappy or unsatisfied, I’d love to guide you out of this dark place. Just like my coaches have guided me. I will help you see the answers within you and to help you design the life you want!
To explore working with me, schedule a complimentary one-to-one session here.